说点儿个人不成熟的意见。
幸福不能只是说说,爱要说,爱要做,说到不如做到,一起努力才能做到最好。曾见过多少典礼上海誓山盟,两个人指天誓日,泪流满面,发誓我们一定要永远在一起,幸福每一天,相爱到永远。后来,后来,后来就,咳咳,不说了吧。想想你买辆车日常开开还要定期保养、维护来的,物犹如此,人事更艰。相爱有如逆水行舟,不进则退,圣经上那段爱是恒久忍耐,是这世人最广为人知的爱情誓言,但在这段话的后面还有下面这些话:
Love never ends. But as for prophecies, they will cometo and end; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come toan end. For we know only in part, and we prophesy only in part; but when thecomplete comes, the partial will come to an end. When I was a child, I spokelike a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became anadult, I put an end to childish ways. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, butthen we will see face to face. Now I know only in part; then I will know fully,even as I have been fully known. And now faith, hope and love abide, thesethree; and the greatest of these is love."
爱是永不止息。先知讲道之能终必归于无有,说方言之能终必停止,知识也终必归于无有。我们现在所知道的有限,先知所讲的也有限,等那完全的来到,这有限的必归于无世做穗有了。我做孩子的时候,话语象孩子,心思象孩子,意念像孩子,既成了人,就把孩子的事丢弃了。我们如今仿佛对着镜子观看,模糊不清,到那时,就要面对面了。我如今所知道的有限,到那时就全知道,如同主知道我一样。
是的,在爱情面前搜卜,我们的确所知有限,我们每个人需要成长、提高的地方都相较对方只多不少。也正因如此,才有达人称婚姻是男女双方共同成长进步的过程,在婚姻面前,我们可能都只是小学生,但无论基础多差,都不能阻碍我们学习的步伐,生有涯知无涯,Lovenever fails. 爱是永不止息,得到幸福要靠自己。让我们一起,在相爱的道路上,慢慢学习,积极前行,相知相守,共同胡做成长、进步吧。